I came up with a theory at breakfast this morning that just might get me kicked out of the land of strong independent women. Instead of digging deep and finding strength, I’m ready to embrace my weakness. Before Madonna and Hilary Clinton come to toss me to the curb, let me explain: Embrace Your Weakness I ate breakfast this morning in the  NH Zuid Amsterdam hotel. They have a wonderful buffet that includes charcuterie, these funny Dutch bread sprinkles, fruit, cereal, bread, cheese, pastries and an omelet bar.        I happily ignored the shocked looks from hotel staff as I kept going up to caress the tremendous variety…